NO SUPPORT DURING INFERTILITY = NO PART IN THE AFTERMATH 🤰🏽🤱🏽
This is called BOUNDARIES
I have thought this through for a while, it wasn’t an easy choice to make but I’ve had ENOUGH. I could not think of a name of who wasn’t aware of my battle, but I’ve been alone left in the cold, talked about, judged, you name it.
How could you ignore someone you know/love during a tough storm ⛈
How could you be “close” to someone suffering infertility and blow up your pregnancy announcement on social media and not even say anything.
How can you act like nothing is going on
How can you just gossip about a loved one who’s already going thru enough
How can you say just adopt like its simple and I just need to move on from barring my own child
How can you post updates about your baby or pregnancy all happy knowing I’ll probably see it and never reach or check on me knowing I’m going thru infertility
How could you make fun/mockery of my infertility battle
HOW CAN PEOPLE BE THIS WAY AND ACT OBLIVIOUS TURNING THEIR BACKS ON ME.
Since that’s how it is and how it’s been, when it’s time, no one will know I’m pregnant, no one will see pictures or be sent anything, no ones the god mother, no one will be invited to the baby shower, no will know his/her name, no one will be told what hospital we’ll be at.
NO ONE WAS THERE DURING THE STRUGGLE.